Sun Sign Mistakes Can Lead to Heartbreak
I often see serious Sun sign mistakes in the questions, “How can I get a Gemini
man?” “How can I get a Taurus man?” “How can I get a Pisces woman?” “How can I
get a Libra woman?”
I must admit these seem like valid questions. After all, if you are one of the people
asking this question, you already know that you feel an attraction to someone who
has one of these Sun signs.
Let’s say you are a woman and found out that his Sun is in Gemini.
Your attraction to him puzzles you because your Sun is in Taurus and you read
somewhere that a Gemini Sun sign and Taurus Sun sign don’t get along. They live in
two different worlds
One lives in his mind and the other lives on the earth.
Yet, you find yourself attracted to a guy that you are not supposed to like!
Obviously, this does not make sense.
Something Is Wrong
This mystery is easy to understand if you will think about the following:
- Most everyone is composed of several signs, not just the Sun sign. This means
that their Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto
are usually in different signs. - You may have two planets in the sign of Taurus, one in Capricorn, and another
in Cancer. This is why people are complex and it is a serious sun sign mistake to
judge them simply on the placement of their Sun.
In the example given earlier, even though your Sun sign is in Taurus, your Mars may
be in Gemini. Mars in a woman’s birth chart shows what sign she is passionately
attracted to.
Since your man has is Sun in Gemini, you are drawn to each other. The signs of
these two planets create an attraction because they have a harmonious chemistry.
So how could this be viewed as a Sun sign mistake?
Because he may have his Saturn in Aquarius, which shows that he does not like the
Taurus side of you and tends to criticize the way you approach life.
You find it hard to live under such criticism and you begin to feel that this person
does not love you. Even though you are attracted to each other because of the
Gemini energy, the Saturn conflict spoils the relationship.
This is what I call a Sun sign mistake.
Thousands of Sun sign mistakes are being made every day by thousands of people
because too much emphasis is being placed on the Sun sign at the expense of
innocent readers.
With just this bit of insight, you can see why your attraction to the Gemini man has
deceived you.
What can you do?
You need to understand that all of your signs and planets work together to make up
the total you. Because of this, you could be a very complex person with many
conflicting desires which can be easily mis-read by others who are judging your
only by your Sun sign.
You can clearly see that if you followed your desire for the Sun in Gemini man
without knowing how your planetary energies work with his, it could be romantic
suicide.
You can easily set yourself up for a real heartbreak by chasing the Sun sign illusion.
© 2006 Randall Curtis
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Astrology Signs Out of Sync Create Strange Bedfellows
What Are Out of Sync Signs?
The twelve astrology signs are composed of the four elements of
fire (3), earth (3), air (3) and water (3). If you have planets
in signs that are not compatible, they are out of sync, and can
cause some serious problems in your relationships.
For example, if you are a woman with your Sun in Cancer (water)
and your Mars is in Aquarius (air), your heart (Sun) is out of
sync with your passion (Mars). This means that you love a man
who is emotional (water) and has a love of the home and family
(Cancer). But you are physcially attracted to an Aquarian man
(air) who is detached emotionally and totally unpredictable. He
has no interest in the home and family. In this case, you may
become confused about your relationships because you may be
going after men who cannot fulfill your Cancer need for a home
and family life. If you understand this about yourself, your
motivations, desires, and attitudes will make more sense to you.
At this point, you may be wondering “What can I do about these
conflicting needs? How can I find a man who is compatible with
me”? The obvious answer is to find someone who has the same kind
of “attitudes” (signs) as you. You would need to consult an
astrologer to help you determine the real attitudes of a man you
are attracted to and avoid being deceived by your attractions.
If you are a man and have your Venus in Gemioni (air) and your
Moon is in Scorpio (water), your heart loves a woman who is
sensual, loyal and intense. But your Venus in Gemini leads you
to go after a woman who is cute, clever and very stimulating
mentally. But if you expect deep, emotional responses from her
(which your Moon requires), she will simply fly away. She will
not be around for you. Actually, what you want is a woman who is
bright and intellectual, but very intense, loyal and sensual a
combination of both types of women. You, too, would would need
to consult an astrologer to help you determine the real
attitudes of a woman you are attracted to and avoid being
deceived by your own attractions to her.
I have merely scratched the surface of the complexities of the
signs and their infinite combinations. But with just this little
bit of insight you can find out if you have any signs out of
sync and what they mean for you. A skilled astrologer can help
you make these determinations, or you can learn ow to this
yourself.
© 2005 Randall Curtis
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